Ssshhhh!

There are moments in our lives when there are things we prefer to be discussed with someone else. Not that we are not confident or scared but because it is something that should be remain zipped. Yes folks, matters that you can never discussed with your beloved, wife/husband, girlfriend/boyfriend. A matter that you can only discussed with your trusted friends who can accept no matter what it is or how worse it could be.

Over coffee during late afternoons when you can gather up your energies and start calling a friend, or maybe on an Instant Messenger telling her that you need someone to talk with. You just wanted to let out what your heart has been meaning to speak out. For instance, I remember a friend, she is in her 50's, separated from her husband, the children doesn't know of course. She could have the strengths to tell us that she felt the need of physical intimacy but can not get it from her husband yet never get the chance to discuss it with her estranged husband. It is sad to know that you have to keep it for yourself and friends because you are afraid to lose face. Or would talk about the crazy things you have done to your friends only, Isn't it because you don't want to losen the respect from the members of the family. They said that home is where you can be yourself, but how come sometimes we are like a stranger in our own home?

The question here is, are you willing to tell your someone special the darkest secrets you've been keeping that only your close friends knew about? Would it be only fair or would it losen the trust and confidence?